Why Kobe Bryant’s death is complicated for sexual assault survivors

I stayed pretty quiet yesterday because I had a lot of mixed emotions surrounding Kobe’s death. This incident is horrific and my opinion doesn’t matter in the scheme of things. I did not want to disrespect what everyone felt yesterday and how they most likely feel today and will feel for days to come. Everyone’s… Continue reading Why Kobe Bryant’s death is complicated for sexual assault survivors

You Do Not Have To Take The Abuse

I sometimes face guilt when I reflect on some decisions I have made in order to create a life that will protect my sobriety. What comes to mind is the boundaries that I have had to set with people that I love. Setting strong and long lasting boundaries is probably one of the hardest things… Continue reading You Do Not Have To Take The Abuse

An open letter to all the men who have left me:

I'm writing this to you because I think you should know something. It's something I've always wanted to tell you so here it goes. My search for companionship has never been for cheap or casual connections. I've always craved true love. I've always set out to give and receive the greatest love. As you know, I am very open… Continue reading An open letter to all the men who have left me: